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Travel Documents Needed for Grandchildren

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Traveling with grandchildren  provides a wonderful bonding opportunity for grandparents . Planning ahead for any documents you will need will help everything to go smoothly.

While you can pick up some items at your destination that you forgot to pack, it isn't easy to get or replace a passport or another vital document. Know what you need before you go.

Although most grandparents will never have to show it, carrying a letter of permission is advisable. Templates for such letters are available online, and you can create your own letter of permission using instructions. You want to format your letter in a way that it:

• Gives consent from the parent(s) to allow their child(ren) to travel with their grandparents
• Includes all children's full names and ages
• Indicates the travel period from departure to the date of return including a few days before and after in case of any travel changes
• Includes the name of the notary and the date notarized
• Lists the general travel destination(s)
• Provides contact information for the parent, including the full address and any major phone numbers
• Provides the name of the grandparent(s)
• Provides the name of the parent(s).
• Shows the signature of the parent(s) and the date

You may need to include more details in your letter if you're traveling out of the country. If a grandchild's parents are divorced, documents should ideally be signed by both parents. Sometimes children are transported across borders during custody disputes, so both signature help alleviate any potential issues.

While it's legal for grandparents to transport their grandchildren without a letter of permission, it's a safeguard against any potential emergencies or law enforcement issues.

Getting the letter of permission notarized by a licensed official adds an extra layer of security to your document. There are many businesses that will perform this quick signature process with you, including banks, law offices, CPAs, and mail services like UPS.

Copies of insurance cards advisable

Letter of permission from parents advisable

No ID required for air, rail, land travel

Certified copies of birth certificates for travel to border countries by land or sea

Passports required for air travel and disembarking ship in some ports

Vaccinations required for some countries

Visas required for some countries

Thankfully, grandchildren won't need any ID for domestic road trips with grandparents. In addition, airlines and trains don't usually require any form of ID for children under 18 for domestic travel.

Still, it's never a bad idea to bring some ID anyway. Photocopies of the grandkids' birth certificates should work fine regardless of circumstance, so keep those in a safe spot. In addition, you should bring:

• Insurance cards : copies of the grandchildren's insurance cards as well as prescription cards, dental cards, and secondary insurance cards if applicable.
• Letter of permission : a notarized letter from the parent(s) giving permission for medical care .

If you're traveling to Mexico, Canada, Bermuda, or other areas of the Caribbean, most grandchildren 15 and under can travel using certified copies of their birth certificates instead of a passport. However, this provision applies only to travel by land or sea and does not apply to travel by air.

Children must have passports for air travel.

When taking a cruise which returns to the port of departure, Americans will not need passports to re-enter the United States.They may, however, need passports to disembark the ship in foreign ports. Passengers should check with their cruise lines or, to be safe, carry passports regardless.

In general, some travel authorities suggest that you obtain a limited power of attorney if traveling abroad with grandchildren. This adds an extra measure of protection if something goes wrong.

The Western Hemisphere Travel Initiative (WHTI) is a United States legal framework that requires travelers to present a valid passport, or another approved secure document when traveling to the U.S. from places within the Western Hemisphere.

Even small children and infants need a passport for air travel overseas. Children cannot be added to a parent's passport. If a child doesn't have a passport, both parents should appear in person to apply for one. When that's not possible, other paperwork will be required.

Grandparents who want to take their grandchildren abroad should be reminded that the passport process can take a while. So it should be managed far in advance.

Some countries also require a visa for entry, and vaccinations may be required in some cases. Before booking a trip, check the U.S. Department of State's website for country-specific information. You'll also want to revisit this a few days before your trip for any last-minute issues.

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By Susan Adcox Susan Adcox is a writer covering grandparenting and author of Stories From My Grandparent: An Heirloom Journal for Your Grandchild.

Air Travel Tips for Grandparents Traveling With Grandchildren

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Lots of articles address traveling by air with children, but few of them are geared to grandparents traveling with grandchildren without parents. Most grandparents won’t be traveling solo with babies or toddlers, so they don’t need all the info about baby formula and strollers. What they do need is advice about handling child passengers preschool-age and older. It's also really important to be able to sit together on the plane so be sure to try to secure seats with your grandchildren.

With that in mind, here are some air travel tips generated especially for grandparents traveling with grandchildren.

Before You Go

• Talk with the kids’ parents before you make plans. They know their children better than you do and will be able to give you lots of good information. Make sure you take notes. On the other hand, don’t be afraid to do things your way as long as you’re not breaking the parents’ rules. While you are with the kids' parents, get the documents you'll need to travel with your grandchildren.
• Don't make your first trip an airplane trip. Don’t take the grandchildren on a trip involving air travel if you’ve never traveled with them before. Try a short overnight trip first to get your feet wet.
• Prepare the grandchildren before you go. Don’t, however, overwhelm them with a lot of information. They’ll deal with most situations just fine.
• Be prepared to sit in your seat most of the time.
• Don’t kick the seat in front of you.
• Use your inside voice.
• Introduce older kids to the concept of air travel etiquette. Teach them the different requirements of the aisle seat, the middle seat, and the window seat. Teach them to keep their bodies and their possessions neatly corralled within their area and to anticipate the needs of their seatmates. Teach them not to recline their seat unnecessarily and to warn the person behind them if they must recline their seat.
• Warn children who are old enough to understand not to make jokes about bombs. Authorities are unlikely to detain a child, but any references to bombs could cause delays.
• Book non-stop flights if possible. Most airline hassles come in the form of missed connections. If you have no connections, you can’t miss them.
• Print or download boarding passes online. Do this before you get to the airport if your airline offers that option.

Avoiding Stress at the Airport

For starters, parents can travel with massive amounts of paraphernalia and negotiate all kinds of difficulties. They are young. But grandparents need to simplify.

• Apply for a Known Traveler Number (KTN). Qualified travelers don't have to remove belts, shoes, or light jackets. They don't have to remove laptops from bags or even take out their bagged liquids. These may seem like small inconveniences, but they make a big difference when traveling with kids. You can get a KTN through the TSA Pre-Check program, but it takes time, so be proactive. There is also a non-refundable fee.
• Reduce carry-ons. Prevalent practice in air travel today, even with stricter rules about carry-ons , seems to be to carry on as much as possible. Some people boarding airlines could probably survive in Antarctica for a week with what they have in their carry-ons. You’re a grandparent. Swim against the current. Keep carry-ons to a minimum. Minimizing carry-ons makes going through security easier, lessens the chance of something being left behind, and reduces the number of bags you have to look through to find the Tylenol. If traveling with older grandchildren, it’s okay to let them have their own carry-on as it will add to their comfort level. Also, it’s good to start the trip by making them responsible for their own things.
• Know the rules. When it comes to liquids, gels, and aerosols, remember the 3-1-1 rule. They must be three ounces or less and placed in a single quart-sized, zip-top plastic bag. The TSA limits such bags to one per traveler. If you can consolidate into one bag for grown-ups and one for children, that would be simpler yet. The bags must be removed from carry-ons and placed in a bin or on the conveyor belt for screening.
• Know the exceptions. There are exceptions to the rules about liquids, gels, and aerosols. Baby formula, breast milk, and juice are not subject to the three-ounce limit, but you won’t need to worry about those if you’re traveling with older children. Prescription and over-the-counter medications are also exempt from the three-ounce limit.
• Dress simply. Unless you are qualified for TSA PreCheck, you'll have to remove shoes, belts, and jackets. Avoid shoes with shoelaces, extraneous outerwear, and belts. Go through handbags, computer cases, and other small carry-ons ahead of time to make sure that there is nothing that will cause a problem.
• Use curbside check-in. Go for this option if it’s not too backed up.
• Choose your boarding time wisely.  Boarding early extends the time you have to sit on the plane. On the flip side, early boarding minimizes the chances that someone else will be in your seat and the chances that your carry-on will end up having to be checked due to lack of room.

Kid-Friendly Skies

• Take things to amuse the grandchildren. But don’t overdo it. Remember that everything has to be carried on and carried off, so the smaller the better. Portable game players and digital tablets can be life-savers. Download movies to a tablet and the kids can watch them even if the airplane doesn't have Wi-Fi. Cheaper electronic games such as electronic Yahtzee are fine, but be sure the sound can be turned off. Low-tech works, too. If your grandchildren are readers, be sure they have a good book. Some other low-tech choices are playing cards, Sudoku, or other puzzle books. For younger kids, choose kids’ playing cards (simplified rules with fewer cards in a deck), BrainQuest flip cards, or travel-sized MagnaDoodle or Etch-a-Sketch. Don’t forget pen and paper for drawing and for playing tic-tac-toe or hangman.
• Pack non-messy snacks. Be creative when it comes to bringing snacks on the plane . You can bring grapes, string cheese, fruit snacks, and Goldfish crackers. Once again, whatever doesn’t get eaten must be carried off the plane, so don’t go overboard. If flying with a grandchild with a peanut allergy, you will have to take extra precautions.
• Avoid meltdowns. Meltdowns and tantrums are never pleasant, but on an airplane, they can be especially distressing because they disturb the other passengers. Sometimes meltdowns are triggered by unforeseen situations, but the likelihood can be reduced by not letting children get too tired, hungry, or hot. Also, children who dislike the unexpected are especially prone to meltdowns. This is where the thorough preparation that you did ahead of time will pay off. If, in spite of your best efforts, a meltdown occurs, stay calm. Remember what doesn't work. Asking questions, being logical, and getting angry may escalate the episode. Talking in a calm voice may work, or try offering a distraction such as food or a toy.

On the Ground Again

• Have your ground transportation arranged. If renting a car, it’s worthwhile to become a member of the rental company’s express service. These services are generally free. Because your preferences are filed ahead of time, the paperwork is greatly reduced. Some companies offer a special line for express customers. You will have to join the membership ahead of time, however, or you won't save any time.
• Know all the details. Whatever type of transportation you are taking out of the airport, know all the details ahead of time—where to board, whether you need exact, etc.

Most of all, remember to have a grand time!

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The Grand Trip: Traveling With Grandchildren

Jan 1, 2009

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Multigenerational travel with the entire family is popular, but vacations for grandparents and grandchildren are just as exciting (and likely welcomed by parents, who can enjoy a vacation of their own). Plus, many resorts and destinations offer activities specifically designed for grandparent-grandchild bonding on grandparent grandchild trips. Before you start planning your trip, we’ll help you hash out the important details, which include steps to ensure a truly “grand” time traveling with grandchildren, as well as some fun trips for grandparents and grandchildren alike.

What You’ll Need No matter where you travel, you’ll want to bring a few copies of the children’s photos with you, in case of an emergency. It is also a good idea to obtain a limited power of attorney if traveling abroad with grandchildren.

Domestic Travel

• A notarized letter from the absent parent giving their permission for you to travel with the child. The letter must include the absent parents’ address, phone number and authorization to travel, as well as the destination and the length of stay. This should be carried with you at all times.
• A notarized letter from the parents giving permission for medical care.
• Copies of the grandchildren’s medical and dental insurance cards, as well as prescriptions (if applicable).

International Travel With Grandchildren

• If you are traveling to Mexico, Canada or areas in the Caribbean, grandchildren ages 15 and under can use certified copies of their birth certificates instead of a passport, though a passport is the easiest solution.
• To fly to Europe, children must have their own passports, as well as the documents necessary for domestic travel. You can check the U.S. Department of State’s website for country-specific information.

Best Places to Travel With Grandparents

Camping If you are healthy and physically fit, camping is a great way to travel with your grandchildren. You can camp almost anywhere, and there are special camping rates offered for seniors. Jellystone Park Camp-Resorts, for example, is a continent-wide chain of campgrounds that specialize in family-friendly camping experiences. We also like Great Camp Sagamore , located in the Adirondacks , which offers a Grandparents’ and Grandchildren’s Camp, complete with canoeing, swimming, hiking, crafts, campfires and sing-alongs. It also offers separate programs just for grandmothers and their granddaughters, perfect for a girls’ day.

National Parks America’s national parks are some of the best in the world, and even if you don’t camp in one, places like Denali, Everglades, Yosemite , Yellowstone and the Grand Canyon are fascinating places to visit. Plus, most admit seniors and children under age 16 free of charge — it’s a highly affordable and easy way to vacation, even if just for a day trip.

Related: 10 Best National Parks for Families

All-Inclusive Resorts The least work-intensive destination for a vacation with grandkids is an all-inclusive resort . Meals are provided and there are excellent programs to keep little ones busy. Plus, the facilities are all within reach, usually inside a gated and protected area. This reduces a lot of anxiety for first-time visits with young grandchildren. We’re not just talking about Caribbean all-inclusive resorts either — Lake Tahoe’s Sierra Club offers a Grandparents and Grandkids Only experience in rustic lodging that includes hikes along the Pacific Crest Trail, swimming in fresh mountain lakes, and a full program of evening activities. In the Caribbean, we like Beaches Resorts, as many of them offer large suites. We also suggest Franklyn D. Resort & Spa in Jamaica , which features complimentary nanny services. It also has a “Bring Your Own Grandparent” (BYOG) offer, which allows up to two grandparents to stay free with a family, plus a free upgrade for a shared suite.

Related: 10 Best All-Inclusive Caribbean Family Resorts for 2016

Specialty Group Tours Tour companies are beginning to tailor programs to Grandparent and Grandchildren travel experiences, and this can be an excellent and worry-free way to travel. It has the added advantage that your fellow travelers will be grandparents with grandchildren, too.

Road Scholars conducts such group tours, designed for grandchildren of different age levels. Destinations include Costa Rica , Italy and Africa, each one completely planned with activities for both grandparents and grandchildren and designed to be an intimate and memorable experience.

Grandparents and their grandchildren can enjoy dinner and conversation (practice in French!) with a family in Paris and have a portrait painted by an artist in Montmartre. They can also tour the control room and underground bunker at the bottom of the Eiffel Tower . On an African Safari in Kenya, visit the Wildlife Trust’s Orphan Project, where orphaned baby elephants are being prepared to return to the wild, or, in Spain, tour replicas of the Nina, the Pinta and the Santa Maria, and visit the monastery from which Christopher Columbus left on his voyage of discovery to the New World.

Related: 7 All Inclusive Multigenerational Tours for Families

Rental Properties For quality time with your grandchildren, a rented condo, villa or cottage can be ideal, since they provide all the amenities you usually have at home, and more. For example, one of our best experiences included an ocean-side villa in Kauai with our grandson. We were able to cook our own meals and enjoy breakfast on the balcony by the ocean. We also swam, boogie-boarded and visited the seals that came to sun on the sand. There were other children at the beach and at the communal pool, too, but there was still plenty of time for just us, looking at birds, marveling at roosters (who seemed to be everywhere), and just spending good, quality time together.

Plenty of popular vacation rental destinations offer similar amenities, and many are close to boardwalks and theme parks.

Related: 10 Best Vacation Rental Destinations for Families

Cruising Disney , Norwegian and several other cruise lines specialize in child-friendly sailings. These are floating palaces, with organized meals, activities and informal kid-friendly dining options. Children 5 years and older are sure to love one of these experiences. Disney Cruises feature animation classes, live productions of Disney favorites, like Aladdin, and family karaoke. Plus most cruises have excellent day programs for children and teens.

International Travel We believe children need to be at least 10 years old to appreciate — and endure — overseas and international travel. While it’s tempting to see as much as possible, too much moving around from hotel to hotel can be tiring and confusing. It’s better to plan to spend chunks of time in a few places. European countries are generally kid-friendly, particularly Italy — where it seems children are spoiled at every table. Conclusion: approach international travel with grandchildren with caution.

Additional Tips

1. Do a Test Run If you haven’t spent time alone with grandchildren, try it out before you go, for an overnight or a weekend visit. If all goes well, you are set to go. If not, you have a better idea of the problems that might arise and can plan for them.

2. Use FaceTime Set up FaceTime on your tablet or phone, and have regular chats with parents if little ones get homesick. But don’t overdo the contact either — a little distance is good for both sides.

3. Research Plans with Your Grandkids Do some sleuthing to find age-appropriate activities, restaurants and parks beforehand, and let your grandkids weigh in on the plans!

4. Consider Your Own Needs Don’t be overly ambitious about how much you can physically handle. Just as young children need their rest, grandparents do, too. Look for a destination with built-in babysitting for a break from busy children, if you think you might need it.

5. Follow Mom and Dad’s Rules You are not a stranger to your grandchildren but you are not a parent, either. We want to indulge our grandchildren, but we need to be respected, too. Don’t permit bad behavior that would not be approved of at home. Everyone will be happier.

6. Nexus and Global Entry Pass If you wish to use your Nexus Pass or Global Entry Pass, the grandchildren will have to have the pass, too, if you are traveling together. It will save you a lot of time — you can bypass long lines at customs.

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Traveling with Grandchildren: 8 Tips to Make the Journey Fun & Safe

Traveling with grandchildren can be a truly wonderful experience.

It’s a chance to bond with them, create lasting memories, and show them the world. 

Of course, this happens when you’re prepared for the challenges that come with traveling with children.

If you’re willing to put in the work, and eager to join the 40% of grandparents who travel with their grandchildren , here are eight tips to make sure the trip is an immensely rewarding experience that’s also safe and enjoyable for everyone involved.

#1 Get Insurance

No matter how carefully you plan, there’s always a chance something can go wrong, which is why it’s important to get travel insurance before you head off on your trip.

And of course, make sure that your insurance covers your grandchildren. Some policies will only cover immediate family members, so it’s worth reading the fine print before you purchase anything. 

Travel insurance can protect you from a number of different risks, including lost or stolen luggage, medical emergencies, and cancelled flights. 

When you consider the fact that the average cost of travel insurance amounts to 5-6% of your trip costs and the average cost of travel insurance is around $148 , in the case any unfortunate event, it can prove to be well worth the investment.

Stats reveal that 38% of Americans use travel insurance , with seniors and family travelers being among the top users – and it’s projected to grow up to a CAGR of 19.7% by 2027.

As the saying goes, it’s better to be safe than sorry, so consider coverage before you hit the road with your grandkids.

#2 Choose the Right Destination

As anyone who has traveled with young children knows, the destination can make all the difference.

A place that’s too crowded or chaotic can be overwhelming and overstimulating for young children, while a place that’s too quiet or boring can be equally unappealing.

It goes without saying that it’s wise to consider your grandchildren’s ages and interests when selecting a location. 

If the grandkids are young or you just became a new grandparent (congrats!), you may want to choose a place with plenty of kid-friendly activities. If they’re teenagers, you might want to opt for a more laid-back setting where they can relax and have some space in between family events and exploration times. 

Here are some of the most popular destinations and attractions other grandparents chose :

• Walt Disney World theme or water parks
• Universal Studios
• New York City
• Cape Canaveral, Kennedy Space Center, or NASA
• Redwoods National Park , and the surrounding area

Whether you get inspired by these destinations or have something of your own in mind, the key is to choose a location that has something for everyone in your travel group. 

#3 Prepare the Necessary Travel Documents

Before you can even think about packing your bags, you need to make sure that you have all the necessary travel documents.

If you’re flying overseas and their parents are not coming along, you’ll need to get a notarized parental letter of consent . Also, don’t forget to bring along all traveler passports and any other required documents. 

Pro Tip: Make copies of important documents like passports and your driver’s license, just in case you lose them. In the unfortunate case that yours is among the 300,000 American passports lost or stolen each year, you can report your lost or stolen documents here . 

The main takeaway is to be sure to do your research and find out what documents are required for your specific destination. The last thing you want is to be stuck at the airport because you forgot an important document.

#4 Involve Your Grandkids With Planning Process

Planning a trip with your grandkids can be a lot of fun. And it’s even more fun when they’re involved in the planning process.

Sit down with them and show them a map of your destination. Talk about the things you’ll be doing and see if they have any ideas or suggestions. In fact, more than half of parents surveyed by HomeAway say they involve their kids in the planning process to get them excited about the trip.

And involving your grandkids in the planning process can also help prevent any last-minute surprises or disappointments. 

After all, kids love and rely on their routines and schedules , which also helps with their emotional and social advancement , so it’s best to support that development and growth even during vacation. 

In a nutshell, by getting them excited about the trip and involving them in the planning process, you’ll make sure that everyone has a great time and does things together.

#5 Limit Screen Time

When traveling with grandchildren, it’s important to limit their screen time. 

Whether you’re taking a road trip or flying to your destination, there will inevitably be some downtime. And while it may be tempting to hand them a tablet or phone to keep them entertained, what they say is true that too much screen time can be detrimental to their health. 

A recent study has found that kids who spend more time in front of screens are at greater risk for developing behavior problems. The research, which was published in the journal JAMA Pediatrics , reviewed data from 87 previous studies that included nearly 160,000 children 12 or under.

It found that kids with more screen time had an 11% higher risk of more externalizing behavior problems like aggression or inattention. Meanwhile, more screen time was also associated with a 7% higher risk of internalizing problems like anxiety and depression.

So try to set some ground rules before your trip. Chat with their parents to decide how much screen time your grandchildren will be allowed each day. And make sure they know what the consequences will be if they exceed that limit. You can also make use of parental controls and other tools to limit their access to devices while you’re on the road.

The most important thing is to try to find other ways to keep them entertained and engaged during your trip. Take them on walks, visit museums, play games together, or simply have conversations. 

By keeping them occupied with other activities, you can help limit their screen time, teach them how to be present, and ensure they enjoy your vacation. Speaking of having conversations, look to our next tip.

#6 Make the Time to Talk

Traveling with your grandchildren is the perfect opportunity to get to know them and tell them stories about your life . It can be hard to find time to talk when you’re at home, with all of the other demands on life schedules and time. Especially if you’re a long-distance grandparent .

But when you’re retired and traveling with your grandchildren, you can really focus on your conversation and create some special bonding time. Make sure to ask them about their lives and interests, and share some stories from your own youth. 

Not to mention you get to teach them about new cultures and places. They may love hearing about your experiences, and you can help them understand what it’s like to travel to different parts of the country or even the world.

So don’t forget to make the time to talk when you’re traveling with your grandchildren — it’s an experience you’ll treasure for years to come.

#7 Be Aware of Your Limits

It can be tempting to want to show your grandchildren the world. After all, there’s no time like the present, and you want to make memories while you’re still young and spry enough to keep up with them. But before you start booking tickets for a round-the-world trip, it’s important to be aware of your physical, mental, and financial limits.

Travel can be exhausting, especially when you’re trying to keep up with kids. Not to mention, they have their own stimulation and energy limits. 

Make sure you’re realistic about how much all parties can handle before committing to anything. And of course, traveling can be expensive . Make sure you have a budget in mind and stick to it — there’s nothing worse than blowing all your savings on a trip that wasn’t well planned out.

By being mindful of your limits, you can ensure that your trip is enjoyable for both you and your grandchildren.

#8 Always Keep the Parents in the Loop

Finally, don’t forget to keep the parents in the loop. They’re the ones who are ultimately responsible for the well-being of their children. You may know the feeling, too, as it’s completely natural to worry about your adult kids as well.

Before you leave on your trip, have a conversation with your kids about your plans. Discuss any medical conditions and daily caretaking duties to make sure everyone is on the same page in terms of expectations. 

This is especially important because parents and grandparents often have conflicts when it comes to raising children. And it mostly boils down to the following, with discipline, meals, and snacks, and screen time being at the top of the disagreement list:

Talk to your kids and set expectations before you leave, and keep the lines of communication open while you’re traveling. It’s also a good idea to have a plan for handling any problems that might come up. For instance, if your grandchild gets homesick or has a meltdown, what will you do?

By being prepared and staying in touch, you’ll be able to relax, safe in the knowledge that everyone is on the same page.

To New Adventures With Grandchildren

The joys of traveling with grandchildren are many, and the experience can be a bonding one for all generations involved. 

There are some things to keep in mind when traveling with your grandchildren:

• #1 Get insurance —  travel insurance that covers both medical emergencies and cancellations is a must when traveling with grandchildren
• #2 Choose the right destination — do your research to make sure the destination is age-appropriate and has activities that will keep everyone happy and engaged
• #3 Prepare the necessary travel documents — stay organized and have all the required documents for all travelers ready to go
• #4 Involve your grandkids in planning — by including your grandchildren in the planning process, they’ll be more likely to have a positive attitude and be excited about the trip
• #5 Limit screen time — it can be tempting to let your grandkids use screens more on a trip to keep them occupied, but try to set some solid ground rules 
• #6 Make the time to talk — use the time spent traveling to have conversations with your grandkids
• #7 Be aware of your limits — by being mindful of your physical, mental, and financial limits, you’ll more likely have a stress-free trip
• #8 Keep the parents in the loop — stay connected by sharing travel plans (and lots of photos)

With a bit of preparation, you’re sure to create some unforgettable memories while enjoying new adventures with your grandchildren.

Safe travels!

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Grandparenting comes with all sorts of benefits for both you and your grandchildren. Discover the advantages of connecting with younger generations and how to build healthy, rewarding relationships with your grandkids.

As a grandparent, you can play many important roles in your grandchildren’s lives. One survey of American families found that most grandparents fix meals and provide financial support to their grandchildren. However, grandparenting can go far beyond these material contributions. From words of wisdom to play to emotional support, as a grandparent you have lots to offer the younger generations in your family.

It all starts with fostering a healthy relationship with your grandchildren, by dedicating time and effort to better connect with your family. This could mean visiting your grandchildren more often, planning trips together, or simply making weekly calls or texts, or writing the occasional card or letter. As you’ll start to see, the results are well worth the effort.

What’s so grand about grandparenting?

In no particular order, grandparenting is an opportunity to play, to love someone new, to appreciate the magic of a developing mind, and to be needed by someone again. Grandparents can:

• Share the things they’re passionate about with a new audience.
• See the world in a new way through younger eyes.
• Experience games, music, nature, reading, and other interests in conjunction with a curious young mind.
• Provide expanded support and encouragement to their grandchildren.
• Use their breadth of experience to avoid the pitfalls they may have encountered as parents the first time around.
• Watch children develop through all stages of growth.
• Learn about their grandkids’ music and passions.
• Provide input that parents cannot.

Usually, grandparents have the benefit of interacting on a level that is once removed from the day-to-day responsibilities of parents. This can make it easier to develop a close bond with grandchildren. From near or far, grandparenting can provide continuity in a child’s life. Grandparents are often family historians and can add a rich sense of family tradition to a child’s life.

Additionally, contact with grandparents can teach children positive attitudes toward aging and help them develop skills to enhance their own lifelong learning. A child’s sense of security and well-being is also boosted by positive interactions with their elders. One study from the University of Oxford found that when grandparents are more engaged with grandchildren, those children have fewer behavioral and emotional issues. Other research has shown that close ties with grandparents can improve a grandchild’s emotional resilience.

Of course, not everything about being a grandparent is great all of the time. Becoming a grandparent at a young age can make some people feel prematurely old and, just as parents do, grandparents sometimes have to deal with colicky babies and moody teenagers. For most though, the benefits of being a grandparent far outweigh the drawbacks. Being involved in your grandchildren’s lives can be emotionally gratifying by making you feel useful to your family and fostering a stronger sense of belonging. Some research even suggests that noncustodial grandparenting—that is, playing a supportive role in caregiving but not having to raise your grandchildren—can help you live a longer life.

The role of a grandparent in a child’s life

Grandparents can play many different roles, depending on the family configuration and needs. Some grandparenting requires a full-time commitment. For others, grandparenting is a weekend together, an afternoon play date, a summer vacation, a chat on the phone, or a text or email exchange every now and then.

A good first step to a long and successful relationship with your grandchild is to establish some ground rules with their parents:

• Be clear about what role you want to have in your grandchild’s life. Let them know how often you want to babysit, for example, or whether you’d like to be included in events such as school functions.
• Talk with parents about their rules. Consistency is important for kids, so know the behavior limits your grandchild has to follow at home and maintain those rules when they are with you.
• Enforce any agreed upon punishment for bad behavior , whether it’s a “time out” or loss of privileges, for example.
• Babyproof your home to ensure safety for infants and toddlers. Since it’s probably been a number of years since you had young children in your home, check with your grandchild’s parents about ways to babyproof your home, so they’re comfortable leaving the child with you.

Common grandparenting pitfalls to avoid

Whatever your specific circumstances, when you are expressing love, showing concern for your grandchild’s safety and well-being, and being consistent in your behavior, you are probably already doing an excellent job of grandparenting.

To avoid potential conflict within your family, try to avoid these common grandparenting pitfalls:

• Trying to be the parent. As much as you might want to tell your children how to raise your grandkids, it’s not your role. Respect the parenting decisions your children make for your grandkids.
• Buying your grandkids’ affection. It’s tempting for grandparents to shower their grandkids with gifts, but check with the child’s parents before you buy more toys. Maybe substitute some of your gift giving with activities instead. Do something with your grandchild that you both love and will build memories. Shower them with love instead of gifts.
• Overindulging the first few grandchildren and then not being able to repeat it as additional grandchildren come along. This can cause resentment from your own children who have kids later in life. Remember that whatever you do for your first grandchild (college fund, beach vacations, trips to the zoo) will set a precedent that you might feel pressured to repeat for every other grandchild.
• Ignoring boundaries. A grandparent who won’t enforce limits and gives in to their grandchild’s every whim can infuriate parents. By allowing your grandkids to misbehave, overindulge in candy and junk food, or ignore bedtimes, for example, you’re only encouraging unhealthy behavior and making their parents’ job even harder.

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The best grandparenting activities flow naturally from the interests of both the grandparents and the grandchildren. You can create a deep, loving relationship with your grandchildren by sharing the things you love with them and by being available to hear about the ideas and activities that excite them.

Take it easy together. Make an effort to enjoy leisure time with your grandchildren. As a grandparent, you get to interact with your grandchildren without the same daily pressures of a parent—you don’t have to worry about driving carpool or juggling making dinner for the family with soccer practice and grocery shopping. Allow yourself to slow down and become really absorbed in an activity. Moving at a slower pace than usual can give children a sense that time can be ‘stretched’—that you don’t need to hurry through activities. And, as with adults, it gives them the space to feel, reflect, and express emotions without feeling rushed.

Get outside. Children love the outdoors, and trips to the park or the beach can be a great jumping off point for some wonderful adventures and happy memories. Nature walks and day hikes can provide lots of interesting things to talk about, and water activities can be especially fun. Throwing stones into the water or watching the current play with sticks are simple activities that can be fascinating to children. You can start these activities when kids are toddlers and expand the games as they get older.

Share your interests or your work. Engaging in hobbies and activities that you love or your grandchild loves can be a great way to spend time together and learn about each other. Sometimes, activities that you might not expect your grandchildren to be interested in, such as knitting or gardening, can turn out to provide an important point of connection. Similarly, if you take an interest in something they are passionate about, such as video games or the Harry Potter books, they get to share their special area of knowledge and may open up in new ways.

If you are still working, a visit to your place of work can add a dimension to your grandchild’s perception of you. If you are retired, pictures and stories about what your working days were like can do the same.

Making the most of your grandparenting time

• Carve out one-on-one time. On occasion, spend time with individual grandchildren. It will give you an opportunity to bond, without competition, with one grandchild at a time.
• See the sights. Concerts and plays, movies, science centers and museums, parks, or walks in the neighborhood provide opportunities to be together and to exchange ideas and opinions.
• Play games. Board and card games are a unique opportunity to watch kids in action and to see how they operate in the world. Games also allow you to help your grandchild learn to be a good sport and play fairly.
• Communicate family history. Tell stories about games or trips you shared when the grandchild’s parents were young. This is a great way to weave a ‘tapestry’ of shared experiences for the whole family.

Taking a trip with your grandchildren or sharing your love of a favorite place will help you create special memories together. Trips, whether it’s a day trip to a national park, a weekend in a nearby city, or a week-long resort vacation, will always be remembered by the child as special journeys with grandma or grandpa.

One of the great advantages of traveling with your grandchild is the opportunity for both of you to be away from home. Being on the road can mean being free of chores, errands, work—any familiar routine. It means all kinds of possibilities for the unexpected—even on the best-planned trip. All the chances to read train and bus schedules, ride a ferry, stay in a motel or B&B, eat out, or have lots of picnics, offer opportunities to discover new parts of the world, yourself, and your grandchildren.

Involve your grandchildren in planning the trip, and of course, involve their parents to be sure they’re comfortable with the plans. Then hit the road! After you’ve traveled, a scrapbook of that experience can be an ongoing delight for everyone in the family.

Tips for traveling with grandchildren

• Don’t take all the grandkids at once. Most grandparents do best handling one grandchild each. If you are part of a couple, that means taking two grandchildren. If you’re a single grandparent, maybe take each grandchild out separately or ask a friend to help you.
• Look for a destination with built-in babysitting. If you think you might need a break from looking after your grandkids, pick a hotel or resort with babysitting facilities or group activities for kids.
• Consult the specialists. If you’re unsure how best to plan a trip with your grandchildren, there are a number of specialist organizations that offer packages and tours designed for grandparents and grandchildren.
• Brainstorm day trip ideas. Even when traveling away from home, you’ll need to come up with ideas to keep kids occupied. Most children love visiting aquariums, science museums, water parks, theme parks, and special holiday events.

It’s estimated that about 50 percent of grandparents live more than 200 miles from their grandchildren. Children’s lives can change very quickly, so long-distance grandparents sometimes struggle trying to keep up with the day-to-day details of their grandkids’ lives. Often, it just requires special efforts to communicate with your grandchild. Those efforts will help establish the foundation for a strong long-term relationship.

When your grandchild is a baby, toddler, or very young child, engage the parents to keep up to date on your grandchild’s progress, their current interests, and the type of reading or viewing material that might be appropriate. When the child is old enough to interact, whether on the phone, FaceTime, or regular mail, start engaging the child directly.

Grandparenting in the digital age

Technology can add a whole new dimension to long-distance grandparenting. Texting, messaging, social media, email, and video conferencing can all help to shrink the miles and keep you in touch with your grandchildren. Use the available technology to engage your grandchild in creative activities rather than simply asking, “How’s school?” For example, you can play online games with your grandchild, start an online book club or fantasy sports league with them, or share videos of enjoying a favorite hobby. Try exchanging jokes or favorite family recipes, or have them share report cards or photos of pictures they’ve drawn.

Other ways to stay connected with grandchildren

As well as the Internet, there are plenty of other ways to help long-distance grandparenting:

• Phone calls. Try calling (or video chatting) at a regular time when your grandchild is not rushed and has time to talk. When talking to your grandchildren, make notes about their interests, books they’ve been reading, doll’s name—anything you can repeat in the next conversation so they know you’ve been listening.
• Snail mail. Even before a child can read, they will be able to recognize their name on an envelope and will love the feeling of importance implied by receiving mail.
• Audio or video recordings. You can record yourself reading a few of your favorite children’s books and send the recording along with the books. Or you can use Facetime, Zoom, or another video platform to read the books to your grandchild in real-time.
• Family scrapbooks. Kids love to hear stories about their family. If you can’t be with them to recount family stories firsthand, try writing them down. Add photos or create a scrapbook. You can also take your picture-sharing online with platforms like Instagram. Create a private account that your family can view together. Encourage your grandkids to add their own memories and photos.

All of these small things communicate your interest and love. Whenever possible, though, try to be present for the most important events in your grandchild’s life, such as graduations, recitals, holidays, or whatever events are important to your family.

Divorce, death of parents, or a parent’s work or school-related responsibilities are just a few of the reasons some grandparents assume full- or part-time responsibility for their grandchildren. Often known as “kinship care,” a growing number of grandparents are taking on the parenting role of their grandchildren, thus foregoing the traditional grandparent/grandchild relationship.

Grandparents who assume the role of parents often find themselves giving up leisure time, the option of traveling, and many other aspects of their independence. Instead, they take on responsibility for the day-to-day maintenance of a home, schedules, meals, homework, and play dates. In cases where tragedy requires a grandparent to step into the role of parent, there are also many additional stress factors—grieving on the part of the children and the grandparents, for example—that need to be addressed.

While it can be more stressful than playing a part-time role in your grandchildren’s lives, raising your grandchildren can also be incredibly rewarding. Grandparents in this position experience much greater connection to their grandkid’s world, including school and leisure activities. They often find themselves rolling back the years, rejuvenated by the constant companionship of much younger people. They also derive immense satisfaction providing their grandchildren with a safe, nurturing, and structured home environment in which to grow and feel loved.

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Grandparents’ rights

Some circumstances make it necessary for grandparents to seek legal help. If there’s been a divorce, death of one parent, estrangement, or the suspicion that your grandchildren are being neglected or abused, you may want to consult a lawyer or advocacy group to ensure access to your grandchildren.

Two issues arise with regard to grandparenting: custody and visitation. In either event, the goal is to maintain the children’s connection to a family beyond the nuclear family. Read: Legal and Custody Help for Grandparents Raising Grandkids .

Have you married another grandparent? Have your kids become stepparents? Step-grandparenting has grown as a family phenomenon because of the growing number of blended families.

As with all aspects of blended families, step-grandparenting can present awkward moments, and create complex relationships—especially if there are already other grandparents in the picture. Children might feel the need to be loyal to the original grandparents and conflicted about giving and receiving affection in the new relationship. With patience, understanding, and open communication, though, a step-grandparent can become an important part of a blended family, and a new friend for a child to love.

[Read: Guide to Step-parenting and Blended Families]

Tips for step-grandparents:

• Learn all you can about blended families and understand stepfamily problems.
• Get to know each stepchild as an individual.
• Give everybody time to adjust to the new blended family.
• Be patient, supportive, loving, caring, and non-competitive.
• Reserve a special place for your step-grandchild’s things at your home.
• Don’t expect to love your step-grandchildren instantly. Affection takes time.
• Even if you don’t like your step-grandchildren, at least treat them with respect.
• Family customs differ from family to family, so be flexible in your grandparent behavior.
• Talk over problems with a close friend, therapist, or support group.

Whether you’re a full-time grandparent, a step-grandparent, or a long-distance grandparent living thousands of miles away, you can strengthen family ties and provide your grandchildren with joyful memories and valuable life lessons. And, in doing so, you may also cultivate a greater sense of purpose and even learn a few new things yourself.

More Information

• Top tips for grandparents - Advice on working with the family to establish boundaries in grandparent-grandchildren relationships. (AgeUK)
• How grandparents fit into grandchildren’s lives: American Family Survey - Poll says grandparents help with money, child care, transportation and more — but they reap the benefits of the closeness, too. (Deseret News)
• Grandparents Raising Grandchildren - Guide to legal issues, family challenges, and how to find support when raising grandchildren. (AARP)
• Grandparent Rights - Collection of articles on topics like grandparent visitation and custody. (FindLaw)
• Danielsbacka, M., Křenková, L., & Tanskanen, A. O. (2022). Grandparenting, health, and well-being: A systematic literature review. European Journal of Ageing, 19 (3), 341–368. Link
• David, P., & Kakulla, B. N. (2019). 2018 Grandparents Today National Survey: General Population . AARP Research. Link
• Duflos, M., Giraudeau, C., & Ferrand, C. (2022). What is emotional closeness between grandparents and their adolescent grandchildren? A systematic review. Journal of Family Studies, 28 (2), 762–784. Link
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Skip-Gen Travel Trends: The 8 Best Grandparent-Grandchild Getaways

Betty and John Knupp of Davidsonville, Maryland shared a love of travel long before their children or grandchildren were born. So when their first granddaughter, Maya, then 10, expressed an interest in wildlife, they invited her to join them on a trip to Yellowstone National Park. The trip was offered through Road Scholar , a nonprofit organization that sponsors more than 150 specialized grandparent travel programs.

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According to a 2019 AARP Travel Trend Survey, 32% of grandparents have taken their grandkids on "skip-generation" (skip-gen) trips — defined as grandparent-grandchild trips that leave the parents at home. More than 77% of boomer grandparents do most of the trip planning, and the majority (76%) pay, too.

Tour operators like Maple Leaf Adventures , a boutique expedition cruise company based in Victoria, British Columbia, has noticed a spike in skip-gen bookings.

"Grandparents have the time and money to take longer, educational trips and want to share the experience with their grandchildren," said Maureen Gordon, co-owner of the company.

The choice of trip, of course, should take into account the ages and interests of the children involved, as well as the grandparents' energy, mobility and budget. Most experts agree that when grandchildren are actively involved in choosing the type of trip and helping plan it, they will be more engaged during the trip .

"At a time when over half of grandparents have a grandchild who lives 200 miles or more away, skip-generation travel is an opportunity to close the distance and create new memories," said Patty David, AARP's director of consumer insights.

The possibilities for grandparent-grandchildren getaways are infinite, but here are some of our favorites.

Visit a National Park

Best For: Children ages 8 to 18.

National parks across the US and Canada offer endless opportunities to experience and learn about nature.

The 18 National Park Adventures sponsored by Road Scholar (like the one at Yellowstone taken by Maya and her grandparents) are among the most popular of their grandparent programs. Think: surfing waves, learning about Pearl Harbor and exploring lava caves in Hawaii Volcanoes National Parks, or learning about raptors and birds of prey at Teton Raptor Center.

Families can plan trips to national parks on their own, but those organized by tour operators tend to be designed and led by naturalists and other experts. They also offer the advantage of enabling young people to make new friends with peers traveling in their group.

Learn to Sail

Best For: Children 10 and up.

The Maine Windjammer Association operates eight tall ships that explore the coast of Maine and the hundreds of surrounding islands. All of the vessels, including themed cruises, welcome skip-gen travelers. But two of the windjammers, Angelique and Schooner Heritage, operate special grandparent-grandchildren sailings (often in collaboration with Road Scholar).

Both novice and experienced sailors can learn the basics of sailing, including how to hoist the sails, steer, tie knots, coil lines and drop anchor. After days on the water, the vessels dock at picturesque harbors where participants can beachcomb, kayak, visit historic villages or learn how to paddleboard. These activities can be family adventures, or allow grandparents time to relax aboard the ship.

Visit a Theme Park

Best For: Travelers of all ages.

Theme parks are popular with everyone from tots to teens, as well as older relatives. If very young grandchildren haven't spent much time away from their parents, a day trip to a local theme park might be a good choice. However, for those who can travel farther, the Orlando area is a mecca for skip-gen travel with at least nine major theme parks (including Walt Disney World , Universal Studios , LEGOLAND and Discovery Cove) and a host of smaller ones, too.

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Orlando has more than 120,000 hotel rooms and 20,000 vacation home rentals, so there is an accommodation to fit every need. Many grandparents choose a resort located on the theme park's grounds. Some even offer kid-themed fantasy suites: For example, Loews Portofino Bay Hotel at Orlando Resort offers two-room Despicable Me suites that allow grandparents to have a private bedroom while the kids can play in their own themed bedroom. Other families opt for apartment or villa stays because kitchen facilities can be more convenient and economical than always eating out.

Tour a European City

Visiting an iconic European capital — especially one that appears on television and in movies — with a grandparent can be an unforgettable experience for young travelers. One distinct advantage of using a tour operator is that all the planning, logistics and hassles of airport transfers; getting from one destination to the next; arranging activities; and finding restaurants and accommodations are handled by someone else.

For example, the eight-day Tauck itinerary, Italia Bella: Rome to Venice , showcases three of Italy's most popular cities: Rome , Florence and Venice . Participants visit the Colosseum, the Leaning Tower of Pisa and St. Peter's Basilica, where they enjoy special access (read: skip the lines or visit after-hours). Tauck also arranges private experiences geared to the interests of younger visitors. By arriving a day or two early, skip-gen travelers buy more time to adjust to changes in sleep schedules.

Best For: Children ages 7 and up.

Cycling trips organized by companies like Duvine , Backroads and VBT Bicycling & Walking Vacations are wooing active, skip-gen families by offering a range of interesting trips geared to different levels of cycling. (For safety reasons, most companies do not allow children younger than 7 to ride their own bicycle.) The trips typically couple stunning scenery with stays at small towns and villages.

For example, the 10-day VBT Ireland: Galway & Connemara Coast bicycle tour appeals to families who want to retrace their Irish heritage and roots. Perfect for teenagers or adult grandchildren, the cycling is rated easy-to-moderate. Less energetic cyclists can decrease their daily mileage or hop on the accompanying support van. Some of the tour highlights include visiting Galway Bay and viewing the oldest Benedictine abbey in Ireland.

Take a Safari

Best For: Children mature enough to understand the risks of the wild.

Safaris are a bucket list item for most grandparents and a dream trip for grandchildren; they offer unparalleled opportunities to see wildlife while learning about different cultures and conservation from local guides.

One itinerary — among many in Africa and India offered by tour operator Micato Safaris — is the 15-day Micato Grand Safari in Kenya and Tanzania. Guests get to visit a conservancy to learn about rhino conservation; meet local Maasai; and visit Ngorongoro Crater (one of the world's largest watering holes). There's also horseback riding, camel treks, hot air balloon rides and game drives. In addition to luxury tented camps, the itinerary includes a stay at the Four Seasons Serengeti Safari Lodge that has a world-class kids' club.

Many grandparents are eager to promote the values of voluntourism and cross-cultural understanding. Through AmericaShare, Micato puts one child through school for every safari sold. Its one-day "Lend a Helping Hand on Safari" add-on enables both generations to interact with local children living in Nairobi.

Relax at an All-Inclusive

All-inclusive resorts make vacationing easy, and grandparents don't have to constantly put their hands in their pockets to pay for extra snacks and sodas.

Many all-inclusives are family-focused with supervised kids' camps and teen clubs so grandparents have some time off, too. For example, Grand Velas Riviera Maya is set on 206 acres of jungle and sandy beach. The resort's spacious Family Suites (more than 2,000-square-feet) accommodate up to two adults and three kids. With private plunge pools, three swimming pools, water sports, eight different restaurants, two fitness centers and an expansive 90,000 square foot spa, there's no chance for boredom to set in.

In addition to the supervised Kids' Club, a "baby concierge' is available to arrange cribs, toys, baby floats, gentle bath products and organic foods. Teens' Clubs for travelers ages 13 to 18 feature video games, disco, karaoke, and teen-friendly drinks and snacks. Together, grandparents and grandchildren can bond over shared activities like cooking classes, lessons in food photography, eco-cycling tours and off-site adventures.

Sail Away on a Cruise

Best For: Children ages 3 and up.

Although most cruise ships allow infants six months and older to board, the sweet spot for a child to be old enough is probably older. On most vacations, but cruises especially, there are few opportunities to turn back.

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Cruises are great in general because you only have to unpack and pack once, and even if the kids go off to activities, mealtimes allow everyone to reconvene to discuss the day and share experiences.

Princess Cruises is just one example of a great line for skip-gen travel. There are family suites that allow grandparents and grandchildren to have separate bedrooms with two bathrooms connected by a spacious living room. There are also onboard children and teen centers with age-appropriate programs and activities geared to children ages of 3 to 17. Princess' relatively new OceanMedallion (worn by everyone on the ship) allows grandparents and grandkids to keep track of each other's whereabouts at the touch of a button.

Interest in river cruises has increased exponentially in recent years, and they may be a better option for grandparents with teenage or millennial grandchildren. After all, they are a convenient way to experience different cultures, cuisine, and sometimes even different languages. Even adult-centric Viking River Cruises reports an increase in guests traveling with adult children, especially on Christmas Market cruises during the holiday season.

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4 Ways Grandparents Connect With Grandchildren Today

From technology to travel, it's all about building bonds and memories.

Renée Bacher,

​A year into the pandemic, Kim Murstein, 26, moved from New York to Florida to live with her grandparents.

Over time, Murstein found herself asking her grandmother, Gail Rudnick, 80, to weigh in on her romantic prospects after going on some socially distant dates. Their intergenerational differences about dating, sex and relationships were so funny that Kim proposed they make a podcast together.

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“My Grandma Gail is such a character, so everything she says is great material,” Murstein says.

Eventually, they started a TikTok account called Excuse My Grandma, where they posted short videos, some of which got millions of views

“I didn't even know what TikTok was,” Rudnick says. “I thought it was a breath mint, like a Tic Tac.”

Excuse My Grandma is now Kim’s full-time job and the duo gets a kick out of being recognized when they’re out together. “The best part about this is being with my granddaughter 24/7,” says Rudnick.​

The connection between a  grandparent and grandchild  is unique, and it can reap enormous benefits for both sides.​

“I think grandparents are vitally important,” says gerontologist Carole B. Cox, a professor of social work at Fordham University. “They bring something special into a child’s life.”​

With life expectancy increasing and family sizes decreasing, grandparents have more time to spend with their grandchildren than ever before, says Rachel Dunifon, dean of the College of Human Ecology at Cornell University who studies child and family policy.

In addition to having more time, many grandparents also live very close to their grandchildren. Dunifon coauthored a study that found that half of U.S. teenagers live fewer than 9 miles from their closest grandparent, and 20 percent live less than 1 mile away. “This means that grandparents can and do play important roles in their grandchildren’s lives,” she says.

Even grandparents who live far from their grandchildren are finding ways to stay involved. Here are some ways grandparents connect with their grandkids today:

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1. They use technology  ​ ​

To close the gap between western Massachusetts, where Carol Steiner lives, and Seattle, where her grandson, Henry, attends preschool, the pair began spending time on Google Meet, doing puzzles and coloring together. “I design, draw and send jigsaw puzzles for him to put together once a month,” she says. “His mom emails me his line drawings, I email her mine, and we color each other’s drawings together online.”

Steiner, 69, also reads virtually to Henry and takes him on video walks with her phone so they can look for bugs together.

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Kathleen Lemoine, 80, of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, has adult grandchildren and some live thousands of miles away.

“I text my grandkids links to articles, fun videos and anything that makes me think of that grandchild,” she says. She also texts them instructions on how to make jambalaya, gumbo and potato salad — some of their favorite dishes growing up. And her grandson who’s working on his doctorate emails his papers to her to get a layperson’s perspective. The exchange keeps Lemoine engaged in what he’s up to and gives them things to talk about when they see each other.​

“If you cannot be physically in the presence of your grandchild,” Cox says, “you really have to make an effort to  get comfortable with technology .” ​

2. They share activities and adventures ​

Grandparents and their grandkids still enjoy doing things they might have done together a century ago: going fishing, picking berries, swimming in creeks, and searching for edible mushrooms and native plants. Those are some of the activities Susan Willis, 69, and her elementary-school-aged grandsons, Gabe and Tristan, do when they get together in Lake Rosemond, Louisiana.​

“I can't really take credit for any creativity in most of our activities,” Willis says. “The ideas come from my grandsons. I just try to be open to their suggestions and we always have fun.” ​

Ellie FitzPatrick Sifford, of Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, sends each of her daughters, ages 9, 5 and 16 months, to Camp Mima at least twice a year for weeklong visits. Camp Mima is the home of Verna FitzPatrick, 69, Ellie’s mom, who lives in New York, New York.​

“With my oldest, they’ve done Broadway shows, sightseeing, a ride on the N.Y.C. ferry, and she has a pool and playroom in her building plus a lot of playgrounds in her neighborhood,” Sifford says. “The girls love the individualized attention from my mom and she makes it super fun for them."​ ​

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3. They do some multigenerational travel ​

Some grandparents  plan special trips  with their grandchildren.

Rhonda Holyfield-Mangieri, 70, of Cincinnati, Ohio, recently took her 15-year-old granddaughter, Lucy, on a  cruise  in Alaska.

“Since we had a break with COVID, I knew I had to break out of the sequestration and go on an adventure,” Holyfield-Mangieri says. “I asked Lucy where she wanted to go and she said Alaska. She loves nature and animals and off we went.” ​

Holyfield-Mangieri especially enjoyed watching Lucy plan excursions and soak it all in. ​ ​

These types of outings create shared experiences, new memories and strong bonds, and they can come with any age combination.  The Washington Pos t recently  reported on a grandmother-grandson duo  who have visited 62 out of 63 national parks together. Since 2015, Joy Ryan, 92, of Duncan Falls, Ohio, has traveled to the parks with her adult grandson, Brad. Together they have driven through the night, camped, climbed mountains and rolled down dunes. ​ ​

​ 4. They help financially  ​

​Some grandparents are in a position to  contribute to the cost of school tuition , summer camp, a laptop, tablet or smartphone. While this can be nice for grandchildren, Cox says buying expensive gifts won’t necessarily build a strong bond. “Don’t use money as a mechanism to buy love,” she says. “We know this doesn’t work.”​

Grandparents can, however, use financial generosity to endow a gift with lasting meaning and impact. New Orleans resident Andrea Neighbours says that for years her in-laws gave each of her children a birthday present plus $100 they donated to a charity chosen by that grandchild. “It gave both kids a sense of the responsibility to give back that they may not have felt otherwise,” she says. “And they loved that gift as much as their ‘regular’ presents.”​

Some grandparents have used a monetary gift to teach their grandchildren about the stock market by opening a brokerage account in their name and researching and purchasing stocks together. According to Kiplinger, getting a child age 10 or older interested in the stock market can have a profound effect on their wealth as adults.

​Cox says that what grandparents model today is very important for the next generation, and that forging a strong connection can help make their grandchildren better grandparents themselves down the road. Not to mention it builds unforgettable memories. ​

“What you’re doing isn’t just for now,” she says. “You can’t live forever but you can live on in people’s hearts.”​

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Renée Bacher is a contributing writer who covers health, pets and lifestyle. She has also written for  The New York Times Magazine, The Washington Post Magazine  and  Parade .​

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The Best Southern Trips To Take With Your Grandkids

Spending time with your grandkids is so important. You might not realize how much your being there for basketball games and having weekend sleepovers means to them, but it's big. What better way to make memories and enjoy your grandkids' company than to take them on a trip? These are the best family vacation ideas that every member of the family will love. Whether you're introducing the kids to the wonders of Disney World, watching their faces light up at the fascinating Georgia Aquarium, or making the life-changing trip to the nation's capital for the first time, there's lots of fun to find on a family trip in the South. With these vacation ideas, you can experience equal parts fun and education with your grandchildren in tow. Make the best memories you can with your loved ones on one of these amazing road trips.

Atlanta, Georgia

Georgia's capital has long been considered the big city of the South, and it's not slowing down anytime soon. Readers named Atlanta one of the South's Best Cities , and we weren't the least bit surprised. There's so much to do with your grandkids, you might not be able to fit it in during one trip! The Georgia Aquarium is a must-see, plus there's the World of Coca-Cola, the High Museum of Art, Centennial Olympic Park, the gorgeous Atlanta Botanical Garden, and the trendy Atlanta Beltline that not only offers outdoor activities but amazing dining options.

Chattanooga, Tennessee

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This family-friendly city has something for everyone. From the Tennessee Aquarium to the picturesque Tennessee Riverwalk, you can soak up the sun and the riverside views. Don't miss all the great restaurants (many are walkable from the aquarium), and be sure to cross the Walnut Street Pedestrian Bridge to get to the parks and shops on the North Shore.

Branson, Missouri

It's easy to forget that this bustling theater hub in the Ozarks is actually a small town (and one of the best , according to our readers). With amusement parks, waterfront activities, and shows galore, you and the grandkids will never run out of things to do in Branson, and you might not know it's especially magical during Christmastime.

Destin, Florida

Destin offers miles of fun along Florida's stunning Emerald Coast. With water parks, an outlet mall, incredible dining, and beach activities like paddle boarding and parasailing, this gorgeous coastline has endless options for the grandkids to enjoy.

Louisville, Kentucky

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If grandparents and their grandkids share a love of baseball, a visit to Louisville, Kentucky, is a must. That's because the city is home to the Louisville Slugger Museum and Factory , a fun spot for a tour and a peek behind the scenes of the famous baseball bat maker. (Plus, you get a mini bat at the end of the tour!) Catch a baseball game with the Louisville Cardinals and visit the Louisville Zoo and Kentucky Science Center for more family fun indoors and out.

Pigeon Forge, Tennessee

If you're looking for a Smoky Mountains getaway, there aren't many places more kid-friendly than Pigeon Forge. Of course, it's home to Dollywood , which has enough to do and see for multiple road trips. But there are also incredible outdoor opportunities to hike, bike, and more. New developments like The Island, an entertainment complex full of stores, restaurants, and music venues, and Pigeon Forge Snow, an indoor tubing winter wonderland, add to the fun.

Orange Beach, Alabama

This Gulf Coast beach town is bursting with outdoor fun for the kids. Enjoy the white sandy beaches, ride the ferris wheel, see a concert, shop, and dine at The Wharf, and enjoy fresh seafood with a kid-friendly atmosphere at The Gulf. Head over to neighboring Gulf Shores to visit The Hangout or LuLu's (as in Lucy Buffett, as in Jimmy's sister) for kids' games, great food, and live music, or Waterville USA for a day of waterpark fun.

Asheville, North Carolina

Although Asheville is a beer city full of awesome local breweries for an adults-only trip, it's a great place to bring the kids, too. You can't go to Asheville without visiting the Biltmore Estate , which is a once-in-a-lifetime event they'll always remember. From Asheville, you can easily access the famously beautiful Blue Ridge Parkway for views and hiking or biking among the Smokies, or you can kayak and raft on the French Broad River. The North Carolina Arboretum makes for a gorgeous visit, and Asheville's walkable downtown is perfect for easy access to shops and restaurants.

Williamsburg, Virginia

A trip to Williamsburg offers an educational and beautiful setting. Colonial Williamsburg is the best place to learn something and have fun while doing it. Travel back in time to take carriage rides, visit historic sites, wander through museums, and watch colonial tradespeople perform their work, among other ample opportunities. Once you've gotten your history in, visit the Ripley's Believe It or Not! museum for a wacky good time, enjoy the theme park rides at Busch Gardens Williamsburg, or take a river cruise to experience the city.

Galveston, Texas

This coastal city is perfect for a Texas road trip with the kids. Visit Moody Gardens' incredible pyramids filled with aquariums, zoos, theaters, museums, and a ropes course, and take a ride on an 1800s paddlewheel boat. If you thought that wasn't enough, the Galveston Island Historic Pleasure Pier has its own rides and amusements, stores, and restaurants. Adults will love the beautiful historic architecture and amazing seafood thf

Helen, Georgia

If you're within road-trip distance of Helen, Georgia , and you've never been, you absolutely have to go and bring the grandkids. This tiny, authentic Bavarian village is like a nostalgic trip back in time, tucked away in the beautiful Georgia mountains. It's famously popular during Christmas, and we'll admit—the kids would adore a holiday trip here. But if you can't swing a Christmas visit, Helen is beautiful year-round , and the shops, restaurants, and surrounding landscape offer adventure at every turn.

Nashville, Tennessee

You might think the Nashville scene is only for adults (and bachelorette parties in particular), but there are tons of opportunities for kid-friendly fun. You have to make time for a visit to the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum and visit historic RCA Studio B, where the likes of Elvis and Dolly Parton recorded countless songs. Depending on the weekend you decide to visit, there's bound to be an arts festival or amazing concert to see, and you might catch a Nashville Predators hockey game or a Tennessee Titans football game. Nashville has grown into quite the foodie city , so the adults will be content with incredible dinners. Bonus: Kids would love a stay at the Gaylord Opryland Resort, especially during the holidays.

Washington, D.C.

Every kid deserves a chance to explore our nation's capital if possible. There are some experiences you truly don't ever forget, and your first time to D.C. is definitely one of them. Of course, you have to see all the monuments (we know Honest Abe will be their favorite), the Capitol, the White House, and the Library of Congress, but that's just the start. The National Museum of Natural History, the National Air and Space Museum, the Newseum, the National Museum of American History, the National Museum of African American History and Culture, the National Museum of the American Indian, the National Gallery of Art, and the United States Botanic Garden are all worth seeing. Mount Vernon and the Arlington National Cemetery are both worth a short trip, and Georgetown's famous architecture is a must-see. There are a million ways to experience D.C., and not one of them is wrong.

Huntsville, Alabama

If you have an aspiring astronaut or kids who love science, Huntsville , also known as The Rocket City and the home of the U.S. Space & Rocket Center, should be the start of your next family vacation. EarlyWorks Children's Museum, the Alabama Constitution Village, and the Huntsville Museum of Art all offer ample educational and exciting experiences. Even if you don't make it to all the museums, you have to promise us you'll try Little Rosie's Taqueria. You won't regret it.

Orlando, Florida

It wouldn't be a list of great trips to take with kids if we didn't include Orlando. Home of both Disney World and Universal Studios, Orlando is bound to be an action-packed trip that the kids will remember forever. One of the most special memories a child can have is one from a first trip to Disney World, so who better to take them than the best grandparents in the world? Plus, Disney World and Universal Studios (plus its Wizarding World of Harry Potter) are fun for kids and adults alike, so you can create new memories with each repeat trip as the kids grow into adults.

San Antonio, Texas

San Antonio's famous River Walk is an attraction both adults and kids can appreciate. Not only is it beautiful for a leisurely river cruise, it's filled with amazing shops and restaurants to try via walking tour. To add in a little educational value to your trip, the Alamo is a free and interesting site to bring the kids that you absolutely have to see if you visit San Antonio . The Natural Bridge Caverns, the San Antonio Botanical Garden, The Witte Museum, Morgan's Wonderland, and the San Antonio Zoo or San Antonio Aquarium are all great options (among tons of others) for kids of all ages.

Outer Banks, North Carolina

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Long a favorite destination for families seeking off-the-beaten-path coastlines, the Outer Banks is filled with great, small beach towns and rental homes, ensuring everyone has plenty of space to spread out. Try Manteo or Duck for laid-back experiences on North Carolina's favorite stretch of sand.

St. Louis, Missouri

You know you have to see the famous Gateway Arch in St. Louis, but what else is there for kids to do? Let us tell you—tons. The City Museum is full of absolute wonder for kids and adults, and there's also the Saint Louis Science Center, the Saint Louis Art Museum, the Missouri History Museum, Myseum, and tons of other learning opportunities. Check out amazing animals at the Saint Louis Zoo and the incredible Budweiser Clydesdales at Grant's Farm. You can't visit St. Louis without chowing down on some incredible barbecue .

Pensacola, Florida

Pensacola is no longer a best-kept-secret beach spot, but it's no less inviting for a family getaway. Beyond the obvious attractions on the shore (sandcastle building, frolicking in the surf, etc.), there's more to explore. Take kids to The National Naval Aviation Museum to learn about planes, to Blue Wahoos Stadium for a fun-packed baseball game, and on a boat tour to see dolphins in their natural habitat.

Athens, Georgia

College towns can be great getaways for families because there's always something fun happening. Walk around Athens's historic downtown for shops and restaurants, and don't forget to visit Insomnia Cookies and Zombie Coffee & Donuts for afternoon treats. Also be sure to visit Alice H. Richards Children’s Garden at the State Botanical Garden of Georgia for outdoor adventures and plenty of room to run around after the sugar hits.

Knoxville, Tennessee

The Sunsphere beckons from World’s Fair Park in downtown Knoxville, where you'll find plenty of exciting family-friendly attractions. Grab a scoop of ice cream at Cruze Farm Dairy , which has a shop downtown; check out the Knoxville Botanical Garden and Arboretum, Ijams Nature Center, and Zoo Knoxville; and don't forget to catch a game at the University of Tennessee.

Charlottesville, Virginia

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Outdoor adventure is everywhere to find in Charlottesville, where you can launch a kayak in the Rivanna or James rivers, visit the Virginia Discovery Museum, and explore the many shops and restaurants in the Downtown Mall. No matter what season you experience here, it's always a beautiful one in Charlottesville.

Oxford, Mississippi

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This college town isn't just for students. Grandparents and their grandkids will find lots of room to roam and things to do in and around Oxford. Don't miss Avent Park and Rowan Oak to see the sights. For bookworms, there's no better place to visit than Square Books and Square Books Jr., the latter of which has storytimes and lots of children's books to peruse.

Savannah, Georgia

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New developments along the river make this walkable city an even more attractive destination for a family getaway. Start with riverboat cruises and city tours to see Savannah and learn about its history, then take a walk along River Street, buy a bag of saltwater taffy, and check out the Savannah Children's Museum or the Jepson Center , interactive spaces that kids will love.

Raleigh, North Carolina

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A great spot for a family trip, Raleigh has a little bit of everything. The Marbles Kids Museum and North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences are must-visit spots for curious kiddos, while Pullen Park is the spot for outdoor escapades. It features a carousel, playgrounds, and rides via both boat and train.

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Ultimate Skip-Gen Vacation Guide: Perfect Destinations for Grandparents and Grandchildren

We’re diving into a heartwarming trend that’s reshaping family getaways: Skip-Gen vacations.

This isn’t just any trip; it’s a special journey where grandparents and their grandchildren pack their bags, leaving the middle generation at home for a bit of relaxation.

Intrigued? Let’s embark on this beautiful adventure together!

Skip-Gen vacations, a term coined for trips exclusively involving grandparents and grandchildren, are rapidly gaining popularity. In these unique getaways, the parents step back, allowing for a different kind of bonding to blossom. It’s not just a vacation; it’s an intergenerational exchange of stories, experiences, and love.

At the heart of Skip-Gen travel is the chance for grandparents to connect with their grandchildren on a deeper level, outside the hustle and bustle of daily routines and family dynamics. For grandchildren, it’s an opportunity to see the world through the eyes of their elders, gain wisdom, and create memories that they’ll cherish for a lifetime. These trips offer a blend of adventure, education, and relaxation, tailored to suit both the energy of youth and the wisdom of age.

In this guide, we will explore the ins and outs of planning the perfect Skip-Gen vacation. From choosing destinations that thrill and engage, to activities that span the generational gap, we’re here to ensure your trip is as fulfilling as it is fun.

So, grab your travel journals, and let’s get ready to plan an adventure that bridges generations and hearts.

Understanding the essence of these trips is the first step in turning them from a mere idea into an extraordinary adventure.

What Are Skip-Gen Vacations?

At its core, a Skip-Gen vacation is a travel experience exclusively shared between grandparents and their grandchildren, without the presence of the children’s parents. This concept has blossomed into a popular travel trend, offering a unique way for different generations to bond and explore the world together.

Why Skip-Gen?

The idea may sound unconventional at first, but Skip-Gen vacations cater to the desire for deeper, more meaningful connections between grandparents and grandchildren. In our fast-paced world, these trips offer a rare opportunity for these two generations to slow down and enjoy each other’s company, away from the daily distractions and responsibilities of regular family life.

The Growing Popularity

There’s a growing recognition of the value of intergenerational bonding, not just in emotional terms but also for the cognitive and social development of young ones. Grandparents have a wealth of knowledge, stories, and experiences to share, making them great companions for curious young minds. On the flip side, grandchildren can offer fresh perspectives and a sense of adventure, rekindling the youthful spirit in their grandparents.

More Than Just a Vacation

Skip-Gen trips are more than just a getaway; they are a learning experience and a chance to create a legacy. They provide an avenue for grandparents to pass down family history, traditions, and values in a relaxed setting. For grandchildren, these trips can be eye-opening, offering lessons in history, culture, and life skills that extend far beyond the confines of a classroom.

Insider Tip : Start creating excitement for the trip well in advance. Share stories, photos, and videos about the destination with your grandchildren to build anticipation.

Customizing the Experience

Understanding the dynamics of Skip-Gen travel is crucial in tailoring the experience to suit both generations. It involves considering factors like interests, physical abilities, and the pace of travel to ensure that the trip is enjoyable and comfortable for both parties.

Let’s explore the myriad benefits that these special trips bring to both grandparents and grandchildren. Understanding these advantages helps in appreciating the depth and value of skip-gen travel.

A Unique Bonding Experience

• Deepened Relationships : Skip-Gen vacations foster a unique bond between grandparents and grandchildren. Away from the usual family dynamics, these trips allow for one-on-one interactions, leading to deeper connections and understanding.
• Creating Lasting Memories : These vacations are an opportunity to create unforgettable memories. Whether it’s a shared laugh over a new experience or a quiet moment of connection, these memories become cherished family stories.

Educational and Growth Opportunities

• Learning Beyond Classrooms : Grandchildren benefit from the wisdom and life experiences of their grandparents. This informal learning can cover anything from family history to practical life skills.
• Broadened Horizons : Traveling exposes grandchildren to new cultures, languages, and environments, fostering a sense of curiosity and a broader world view.

Health and Well-being Benefits

• Boosting Mental Health : For grandparents, these trips can provide a sense of purpose and joy, enhancing their mental and emotional well-being.
• Physical Activity : Traveling often involves physical activities suitable for all ages, promoting health and fitness.

Personal Development for Grandchildren

• Building Confidence and Independence : Away from their parents, grandchildren often discover new levels of confidence and independence.
• Developing Social Skills : Interacting with different people and environments during travel helps grandchildren develop versatile social skills.

Joy of Sharing Interests

• Discovering Common Interests : These trips can reveal shared hobbies and interests, leading to enjoyable experiences and discussions.
• Passing Down Traditions : Grandparents have the opportunity to share family traditions, stories, and values, enriching the cultural tapestry of the family.

Flexibility and Customization

• Tailored Travel Experiences : Skip-Gen vacations can be customized to suit the specific interests and abilities of both generations, ensuring an enjoyable and comfortable trip for all.

The perfect spot can make all the difference in ensuring a trip that’s enjoyable for both grandparents and grandchildren.

Insider Tip : Have a pre-trip planning session with your grandchild to discuss interests and expectations. This can be a fun activity and helps ensure the trip caters to both of your interests.

Understanding Preferences and Interests

• Discuss Interests Together : Start by discussing interests and hobbies. What excites the grandchildren? What are the grandparents passionate about? Finding common ground or complementary interests is key.
• Consider Health and Mobility : Take into account any health considerations or mobility issues. Ensure the destination offers comfortable access and activities for all involved.

Destination Criteria

• Safety First : Safety is paramount. Choose destinations known for their safety, especially when it involves children and older adults.
• Variety of Activities : Look for locations offering a range of activities to cater to different interests and energy levels. From museums and historical sites for a touch of education, to parks and gentle hikes for a bit of adventure.
• Accessibility : Consider how easy it is to travel to and around the destination. Direct flights, short travel times, and convenient public transportation can be important factors.

Types of Destinations to Consider

• Cultural and Historical Sites : Cities rich in culture and history can be great educational experiences for grandchildren and nostalgic for grandparents.
• Nature and Wildlife Reserves : Destinations with natural beauty and wildlife offer a chance to connect with nature and engage in gentle outdoor activities.
• Beach Destinations : Beaches provide a relaxing environment with activities like swimming and sandcastle building, suitable for all ages.
• Theme Parks and Resorts : While they can be busy, theme parks and resorts often offer diverse entertainment options catering to both young and old.
• Cruise Vacations : Cruises can be a hassle-free way to travel, offering various destinations, activities, and amenities in one package.

Research and Resources

• Use Reliable Sources : Leverage travel blogs, family travel forums, and reputable travel guides for insights and reviews.
• Consult Travel Experts : Consider talking to travel agents who specialize in family travel for tailored advice and suggestions.

Insider Tip : Balance structured activities with free time. While it’s great to have planned outings, some of the best memories can come from spontaneous, unplanned moments.

Now that we’ve covered how to choose a destination, let’s dive into some of the top destinations that cater wonderfully to both grandparents and grandchildren for an unforgettable Skip-Gen vacation.

1. San Diego, California

• Why It’s Great : San Diego offers a blend of beautiful beaches, fascinating museums like the USS Midway, and family-friendly attractions such as the San Diego Zoo.
• Highlight : Balboa Park, a cultural hub with numerous museums, gardens, and the famous San Diego Zoo.

2. Washington, D.C.

• Why It’s Great : Bursting with history, museums, and iconic landmarks, it’s an educational paradise for all ages.
• Highlight : The Smithsonian Museums, offering a wealth of knowledge and experiences without an admission fee.

3. Orlando, Florida

• Why It’s Great : Home to world-renowned theme parks like Disney World and Universal Studios, perfect for thrill-seeking grandkids and young-at-heart grandparents.
• Highlight : Magic Kingdom at Disney World, a magical experience for both young children and adults.

4. London, England

• Why It’s Great : Rich in history, culture, and easily accessible attractions, London is perfect for a Skip-Gen trip abroad.
• Highlight : The Tower of London and the British Museum, offering glimpses into historical and cultural treasures.

5. Canadian Rockies, Canada

• Why It’s Great : For nature-loving families, the Canadian Rockies offer breathtaking landscapes and outdoor activities suitable for all fitness levels.
• Highlight : Banff National Park, with its stunning scenery and wildlife spotting opportunities.

6. Tokyo, Japan

• Why It’s Great : A dazzling mix of modern and traditional, Tokyo offers an engaging cultural experience with its unique blend of history, technology, and cuisine.
• Highlight : Tokyo Disneyland and the historic Asakusa district, offering a contrast of modern entertainment and rich cultural heritage.

7. The Galápagos Islands, Ecuador

• Why It’s Great : An unparalleled wildlife experience, the Galápagos Islands offer close encounters with unique species and natural beauty.
• Highlight : Guided tours for wildlife viewing and educational experiences about the unique ecosystem.

8. Tuscany, Italy

• Why It’s Great : Tuscany offers a serene landscape, rich history, and a taste of authentic Italian culture and cuisine.
• Highlight : The historic cities of Florence and Pisa, along with countryside vineyard tours.

9. Alaska Cruise

• Why It’s Great : An Alaska cruise combines the ease of a cruise vacation with the awe-inspiring natural beauty of Alaska.
• Highlight : Glacier viewings, wildlife tours, and cultural experiences with local indigenous groups.

10. New Zealand

• Why It’s Great : Known for its stunning landscapes and adventure activities, it’s perfect for active grandparents and grandchildren.
• Highlight : Visit Hobbiton for a fun Lord of the Rings experience and explore the many national parks for outdoor adventures.

A well-thought-out plan can ensure a smooth, enjoyable, and hassle-free trip for both grandparents and grandchildren.

Insider Tip: Consider destinations with a mix of indoor and outdoor activities. This provides flexibility to adapt to different weather conditions and energy levels.

Budgeting for Your Trip

• Setting a Budget : Start by determining a realistic budget. Consider factors like travel costs, accommodation, activities, food, and emergencies.
• Saving Tips : Look for senior and child discounts, and consider traveling during the off-peak season for better rates.

Booking and Accommodation

• Early Booking : Book flights and accommodations well in advance to secure the best prices and availability.
• Suitable Lodging : Choose accommodations that are comfortable for both generations. Consider options like vacation rentals for more space and home-like amenities.

Travel Insurance

• Importance of Insurance : Invest in good travel insurance that covers medical emergencies, trip cancellations, and lost baggage. This is especially important for international trips.

Health and Medications

• Medical Check-Up : Ensure both grandparents and grandchildren have a medical check-up before the trip. Discuss any potential health concerns with a doctor.
• Medication and Health Supplies : Pack an adequate supply of medications and a basic first-aid kit.

Packing Essentials

• Packing List : Create a comprehensive packing list tailored to the destination and activities planned.
• Comfort Items : Remember to pack comfort items for the grandchildren and any necessary aids for the grandparents.

Preparing for the Journey

• Travel Documents : Ensure passports, visas, and other necessary travel documents are in order.
• Familiarizing with Destinations : Research the destination together. Familiarize yourselves with the culture, language, and important information about the places you’ll visit.

Setting Expectations

• Discussing the Trip : Have open discussions about the trip, covering what to expect, activities planned, and any concerns either party might have.
• Flexibility : Plan for flexibility in your itinerary to accommodate the energy levels and interests of both grandparents and grandchildren.

Safety Precautions

• Emergency Contacts : Have a list of emergency contacts, including local emergency services at the destination.
• Safety Rules : Establish safety rules for the grandchildren, especially in crowded or unfamiliar places.

Crafting a journey that is engaging for both grandparents and grandchildren is key to a memorable Skip-Gen vacation.

Insider Tip : Include a mix of activities that you loved as a child with new experiences. This can be a great way to share your own childhood memories with your grandchildren.

Planning Activities for All Ages

• Balancing Interests : Combine educational and fun activities. Museums and historical sites can offer learning experiences, while parks and interactive exhibits add an element of play.
• Inclusive Activities : Choose activities that are accessible and enjoyable for both age groups. Nature walks, boat tours, and cultural shows are often good choices.

Interactive and Educational Experiences

• Workshops and Classes : Look for destinations offering cooking classes, art workshops, or cultural craft sessions suitable for all ages.
• Guided Tours : Consider guided tours that are tailored for families, focusing on storytelling and interactive learning.

Staying Active and Engaged

• Outdoor Adventures : Include activities like easy hiking, wildlife safaris, or beach days for physical engagement.
• Hands-On Experiences : Interactive science museums or hands-on cooking experiences can be both fun and educational.

Downtime and Relaxation

• Planned Rest : Ensure there is enough downtime in the itinerary for rest and relaxation, crucial for both grandparents and grandchildren.
• Evening Activities : Plan gentle evening activities like board games, movie nights, or stargazing.

Remember, the key to a successful Skip-Gen itinerary is flexibility and a balance of interests.

P roper planning in these areas guarantees a stress-free and enjoyable experience for both grandparents and grandchildren.

Insider Tip : Create a shared digital folder (like Google Drive) to store all travel documents, itineraries, and important information that both of you can access anytime.

Prioritizing Health and Safety

• Medical Preparedness : Ensure all necessary medications for both generations are packed. Consider a small first-aid kit for minor emergencies.
• Stay Informed About Health Services : Know the locations of nearby hospitals or clinics at your destination, especially for international travel.

Travel Insurance is a Must

• Comprehensive Coverage : Choose travel insurance that covers medical emergencies, trip cancellations, and lost baggage.
• Understand the Policy : Make sure you understand what is and isn’t covered, especially for pre-existing medical conditions.

Accommodation Safety

• Child-Proofing : If traveling with young grandchildren, ensure the accommodation is child-friendly and safe.
• Comfortable Stays : Opt for accommodations with amenities that cater to the elderly, like elevators, accessible bathrooms, and comfortable bedding.

Transportation and Mobility

• Convenient Transportation : Choose transportation options that are comfortable and suitable for both seniors and children. Consider renting a car or using taxis for easier mobility.
• Plan for Rest Breaks : During longer journeys, plan for regular stops to rest and stretch.

Safety Measures During Activities

• Appropriate Activities : Choose age-appropriate and ability-matched activities. Avoid overly strenuous activities for grandparents or overly complex ones for young children.
• Emergency Plans : Have a plan for emergencies, including a designated meeting point if separated.

Communication and Connectivity

• Stay Connected : Ensure you have a way to communicate, especially in foreign countries. Consider getting a local SIM card or a portable Wi-Fi device.
• Inform Family Members : Keep family members back home informed about your itinerary and check in regularly.

Food and Dietary Needs

• Dietary Considerations : Be mindful of dietary restrictions and preferences. Plan meals that are agreeable to both age groups.
• Hydration and Healthy Snacks : Keep hydrated and have healthy snacks on hand, especially during outings.

Respecting Each Other’s Space and Needs

• Understanding and Patience : Recognize that both grandparents and grandchildren might have different needs and limitations. Patience and understanding go a long way.
• Individual Time : Allow for some alone time or separate activities if desired, for a more balanced experience.

Skip-Gen travel is more than just a trip; it’s an opportunity to bridge generations, share unique experiences, and create lasting bonds and memories.

Skip-Gen vacations represent a beautiful tapestry of experiences, learning, and joy. They offer a chance for grandparents to impart wisdom and stories, for grandchildren to share their curiosity and enthusiasm, and for both to explore and understand the world together. These trips are a celebration of family, of shared experiences, and of the love that spans generations.

Remember, the key to a successful Skip-Gen trip lies in planning, flexibility, and a willingness to embrace new experiences. Each destination holds the promise of adventure, each activity an opportunity for bonding, and each moment a chance to create a memory that will be treasured for years to come.

We hope this guide has inspired you to embark on your own Skip-Gen adventure, to explore the wonders of the world with your loved ones, and to create stories that will be told for generations. So pack your bags, hold hands, and step into the journey of a lifetime – a journey of laughter, learning, and love.

The post Ultimate Skip-Gen Vacation Guide: Perfect Destinations for Grandparents and Grandchildren appeared first on Family Vacations US .

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Posted: 22/8/2022 | By Amanda Duffy

Going on holiday with the grandkids? Before you go, make sure that you have everything you need for a stress-free trip. Aside from packing the right clothes and equipment, you need to get the paperwork organised.

Do you need a letter of permission?

If you travel with your grandchildren, all you need officially is their passport. But if there are any problems either at the UK border, or they need medical treatment while you’re away, officials might want to know that you’re allowed to be travelling with them. This is especially important if you have a different surname to your grandchildren.

Many grandparents choose to travel with a ‘letter of permission’. This permission letter is a note signed by the child’s parents that tells officials they’re happy to let you take their child on holiday. This doesn’t have to be a complicated as it sounds.

The letter of permission needs to state the following:

• Your full name
• The name of your grandchild/grandchildren travelling with you
• Where you are taking them
• The start and end date of the holiday (it’s advisable to add a few days to the end of the trip in case of travel delays)
• The names and signature of their parent or parents

It’s crucial to get this signed by at least one parent to show that you have their approval. If the parents of your grandchildren are divorced, it’s important that both parents sign this letter too.

Of course, it’s not compulsory to have a letter of permission, but it can speed things up if there are any concerns at the border.

If you're travelling with your grandchildren, make sure you've got good travel insurance.

What information should you take with you on the holiday.

You could also bring a copy of your grandchild’s birth certificate with you. This, combined with a copy of the parent’s certificate (your own child), would prove you are related. But don’t get hung up about this: most of the time, the grandchild’s passport will be fine. Read about what to expect when you enter and exit the UK at the UK Border Agency website.

Other information you could take includes the child’s medical notes, so that if they need treatment you will know what medication they’re taking. You can also make note of any allergies your grandchildren may have. This could save you a lot of worry if they are ill or have an accident while you’re away. You can also bring proof of any vaccinations with you to show doctors. Find out more about children’s health while travelling from the NHS.

Types of insurance options

Travel insurance for a child travelling with grandparents can mean either single-trip policy or an annual policy . A single-trip policy will cost less, but only cover you for a short period, usually one trip. Annual policies cost more, but they cover for many trips over the course of a year. So, if you travel with your grandchildren a lot (internationally or domestically), an annual policy might make more sense.

Tips on travelling with grandchildren

Travelling somewhere appropriate is the secret to having a great holiday with your grandchildren. For a start, check that you are heading to a place that is safe by checking the Foreign, Commonwealth and Development Office (FCD) travel advice pages. Next, don’t forget to include your grandchildren in the decision. They will love having a say in the trip, and won’t forget the trust that you’re placing in them. Be ready to be led by their choices while you’re away, too – you might enjoy the new experiences that they will introduce you to.

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Here’s how your grandchild can get financial aid with a college savings account.

Grandparents looking to support their grandchildren’s future education can invest money into a 529 plan. This savings account gives users an easy route to start planning how they will fund their students’ college degrees. Unlike a brokerage account, the money grows tax-free.

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Ready to open a 529 account? Here are the advantages that started this academic year.

In the past, one of the drawbacks was that leftover funds unused by students’ education were at risk of additional tax penalties. This meant using these funds for anything other than education could incur fees. Starting in the 2024-25 school year, grandparents can now move excess funds to a retirement account like a Roth IRA , according to a report from Ameriprise.

Another downside was that 529 contributions and cash gifts from grandparents used to be listed as untaxed income on a student’s Free Application for Student Aid (FAFSA) form. With this factor listed on the application, there was a chance that the potential aid offered could drop.

This year the U.S. Department of Education rolled out a series of changes. In line with the FAFSA Simplification Act, “cash support” and “any money paid on the student’s behalf” are now considered untaxed, as stated in a 2022 update from the Congressional Research Service . For those using the 529 plan, this change is the grandparent loophole.

The NY 529 College Savings Program lists all the benefits grandparents can utilize with this plan as an account owner, like low yearly costs for maintaining an account and no federal tax on gifts under $18,000 per year, on their website .

For larger families, there is also no limit to how many grandchildren can be supported.

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Opinion | Ariel Kalil: Multigenerational households are key to better support for kids of single mothers

Decades of research show that on average, children who grow up with parents who are not married and living together have worse achievement and behavioral and well-being outcomes than children of two-parent homes. Despite this evidence, rates of nonmarital childbearing have risen dramatically in the U.S. , especially among the noncollege-educated. What then can be done to help the increasing number of children growing up outside of married, two-parent households to flourish? 

While we need many good ideas on the table, policymakers should look very closely at one demographic phenomenon: the positive outcomes of low-income children who live with their grandmothers. And there are lots of them. America has seen a marked rise in these multigenerational households, driven by the realities of single parenting, as well as myriad economic, housing and other headwinds.  

This does not mean that society should abandon the idea of marriage. Marriage can go a long way toward increasing children’s economic resources. It can also provide the setting for the time, attention, affection, and family culture and traditions that help children thrive. 

But we should abandon the idea that a married household with two “original” parents is the only type of household that can provide these ingredients for healthy child development. Single parents living with their child and a grandparent in a multigenerational household can provide these crucial ingredients while also helping stabilize low-income families economically. 

My colleague Thomas DeLeire and I have found in our research that low-income Black teenagers living with their unmarried mother and a grandparent have superior achievement and behavior compared to similar low-income Black teenagers living with their married parents (and not with a grandparent). Scholars including Kathryn Edin and William Julius Wilson have long posited that adverse economic forces affecting low-income couples — i.e., job loss, unemployment, income instability — can cause relationship strife and disrupt parent-child engagement . In these contexts, grandparents may be better able to support the child’s development than resident biological fathers who are being buffeted by these economic headwinds.

In a related paper, along with my colleagues Rebecca Ryan and Elise Chor , I studied time investments in children across different living arrangements. Time investments do not fully capture the experience of parenting, but they are widely viewed as an important vehicle through which children’s skills develop in their home environment. Most studies of this type look at how parents and caregivers spend their time on children. We, instead, looked at how much time children receive from their caregivers within their home. We found that children living with their single mother and one of their grandparents receive no less total time investment than do children living with their married parents. Indeed, comparing children in single-parent multigenerational households versus those in married-parent households (without a grandparent), children receive the same share of time from their grandmothers as from their resident biological fathers. 

Survey respondents in the U.S. report that multigenerational living arrangements are socially acceptable. (Indeed, this arrangement is common in other countries.) Multigenerational householders describe their living arrangements as a long-term commitment. On average, they say it is a positive and rewarding experience. It reduces poverty and is an important setting for providing and receiving care in both directions across the generations.

Policymakers have not caught up to these realities. About 20 years ago, President George W. Bush’s administration gave $1.5 billion to the states to encourage low-income unmarried couples to enroll in marriage education programs to help them form “healthy marriages.” These programs had little effect on marriage rates.

There’s another path forward: We should aim to improve the outcomes of children who are already being raised outside marriage. Strengthening the economic safety net for single mothers is an important starting point. The government could also spend money on child care or schooling to help boost outcomes for children in different household structures. Whether the U.S. government has the appetite for any of these subsidies, however, is far from clear. 

Getting creative about government supports for new types of living arrangements should be high on the policy agenda. Unfortunately, the U.S. lags its peers in this regard. The United Kingdom has a National Insurance (state pension) credit for grandparents caring for grandchildren younger than 12. Portugal has a grandchild care allowance that allows working grandparents living with a very young parent and the baby to take a period of leave of up to 30 consecutive days. These policies are sensible and feasible.

The economic forces gathering speed and shaping family behavior in the U.S. demand fresh policy solutions to support children’s development. Multigenerational parenting arrangements work well in other countries, and they are proving viable here too. We must acknowledge this and support them.

The old saying “good things come in threes” — especially when answering the question of how many generations make a happy, nurturing, future-focused household — should be part of a new guide to effective family policy. 

Ariel Kalil is the Daniel Levin professor at the University of Chicago Harris School of Public Policy.

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Children find significant support from their grandparents.

Emotional support plays a crucial role in grandparent-grandchild relationships. The relationship between the two provides a nurturing environment where love and positivity flourish.

Grandparents are the family’s strong foundation, holding a treasure trove of experience, knowledge, and wisdom. They know a lot about life and gladly share their valuable lessons to help younger ones. Besides, they’re the best buddies for kids, always ready to chill and play with them. Their love is so deep and genuine, sometimes even more than a parent’s. Here are some reasons why grandparents are just amazing.

Provide a Sense of Security

During challenging times, children find significant support from their grandparents. Research suggests that strong bonds between grandparents and teenagers result in fewer emotional and behavioural issues, as well as fewer difficulties with peers. Grandparents provide comfort and attentive listening, creating a safe space for children to express their concerns.

Emotional Support

Emotional support plays a crucial role in grandparent-grandchild relationships. The relationship between the two provides a nurturing environment where love and positivity flourish. Unlike parents who may be busy with several jobs, grandparents often have the time and desire to give their full attention and affection to their grandchildren.

Character Development

The bond between grandparents and grandchildren is crucial for shaping a child’s character. Grandparents teach important life lessons and values by telling stories, sharing family history, and having meaningful conversations. Through these interactions, grandchildren learn qualities such as honesty, kindness, resilience, and empathy.

Imparts Life Lessons

Grandparents are key in teaching children important life lessons through stories and sharing their experiences. By passing down their wisdom, grandparents give children valuable insights to handle life’s challenges and decisions. This storytelling not only strengthens family bonds but also broadens the child’s understanding of the world.

Reminds You To Be Grateful For Everything

Grandparents teach young people to value life, especially during tough times. They stress being thankful for what we have and finding happiness in small things. Their advice helps young people stay strong and positive when facing life’s difficulties.

Never Leaves You empty-handed

Grandparents always make sure you’re ready before you go anywhere, be it to a hostel, on vacation, or elsewhere. During holidays and special occasions, they spoil you with gifts, tasty treats, and lots of love. Whenever you need something, they’re there, willing to help in any way they can.

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Who Is Lester Holt's Wife? All About Carol Hagen

Carol Hagen and Lester Holt met while he was still a radio reporter

Kaitlin Stevens is a contributing writer at PEOPLE. She has been working at PEOPLE since 2022. Her work has also appeared in Buzzfeed, She Knows and Greatist.

NBC news anchor Lester Holt has had a long and impactful career as a reporter, and through it all, he's credited his wife, Carol Hagen, for being his rock.

The pair met when Carol was a flight attendant and Lester was a radio reporter in California, but shortly into their relationship, Lester was moving across the country to become a TV news reporter in New York City, and Carol was following him there.

Less than a year later, Carol and Lester got married in California, where they'd soon move back to follow another new gig for Lester. Despite the constant moving, they didn't hesitate to start a family when they were living together in Chicago. Together, they share two children: Stefan and Cameron.

When asked about the secret to their marriage, Lester had a simple answer: laughter.

"We laugh a lot, we really do. I can be silly, she can be sillier, and we just laugh through things," he told Extra .

So who is Lester Holt's wife? Here's everything to know about Carol Hagen and her relationship with the news anchor.

They spent one of their first dates covering a forest fire

When Carol and Lester first started dating, he was working as a radio reporter at KCBS Radio in California. One day, while they were heading out on a date, Lester got called by his job, asking him to cover a breaking news story of a forest fire in the Napa Valley. Not wanting to cancel their date, Lester asked Carol if she'd accompany him.

"I thought, 'Wow, I've never been invited to go on a breaking news story before. A forest fire — that could be considered a hot date!' So I said, 'I'm game.' I guess I knew what I was getting myself into with Lester and his career," Carol told Sactown Mag .

Talking to Extra in 2015, Lester reflected on this aspect of his wife's support that's been present from the beginning.

"She understands that when the bell rings, I like to answer it, when the big story's going on, I want to be there," he said.

"I love her to death, she has been so wonderful, she knows this job is going to bring a lot of late-night phone calls, but she's there for me and that means an awful lot," he continued.

They got married in 1982

Carol and Lester wed at the Mark Hopkins Hotel in San Francisco on May 8, 1982, about two years after they'd started dating. They were both 23 years old.

They first met when Carol was working as a flight attendant at United Airlines, and after being laid off from the company in 1981, Carol followed Lester to New York when he was offered a job at WCBS, reporting on camera.

She continued to follow him on other cross-country moves in pursuit of different news reporting opportunities, from New York to Chicago to California, where they both hail from and where they got married.

They have two children together

Carol gave birth to her first son with Lester in 1987, five years after she and Lester got married. Stefan Holt was born in Chicago, where dad Lester was working for WBBM-TV at the time.

Stefan followed in his dad's footsteps, pursuing a career in journalism . He studied broadcast journalism and political science at Pepperdine University, graduating in 2009, and began his career in Florida as a weekend anchor and reporter for WPBF-TV. He currently works at NBC 5 Chicago, where he anchors the nightly news broadcast on weeknights.

On Take Your Kid to Work Day in 2017, Lester brought Stefan with him to work at NBC in NYC — but it was actually Stefan's workplace at the time, too!

"Yep. On my toes hoping for another inch. But alas busted by the photo. Stefan used to come to the studio with me when he was a kid. Blessed to have him working right near me as an adult in the same building!" Lester captioned a photo of him and his son in the newsroom.

On Mother's Day 2022, Stefan shared an old photo of himself being held by Carol, with the caption: "I love you Mom! #happymothersday #mom".

A few years after Stefan was born, Lester and Carol welcomed their second son, Cameron.

Cameron graduated from Stanford University in 2012 with a B.S. in mathematical and computational science. He also earned a master's degree in management science and engineering at Stanford in 2013. He currently works as an executive director at Morgan Stanley in New York.

When Cameron was hospitalized for nearly a month with a collapsed lung, Lester was by his side before and after broadcasts.

"We'd have dinner together in hospital chairs eating off paper plates," Carol told Sactown Magazine . "All of this was going on, and he would just show up to work and be rock steady. Now I don't mean to be bragging, but he's just that type of guy. He's a calm guy under pressure."

In September 2020, Stefan shared a throwback photo of himself and Cameron being walked to school by their dad.

"Not sure the year here, but this looks like an early autumn day walking to school in Lincoln Park. Brother on the right. Dad walking the family Old English Sheepdog," he wrote alongside the photo, which showed him and his brother in T-shirts, shorts and sneakers, while dad Lester looked sharp in a denim button-up shifts, slacks and a tie.

They're grandparents to three grandkids

Carol and Lester became grandparents on Sept. 5, 2017, when their grandson Henry was born to Stefan and his wife, Morgan.

On June 5, 2019, Stefan and Morgan welcomed their second son, Samuel.

Stefan used some news reporter humor when he announced that he and his wife were expecting their third child , posting a photo of sons Henry and Samuel holding a sonogram , captioned: "Breaking News: Henry and Sam are excited to welcome their baby brother this fall. And they're even helping us with names 😂".

He and wife Morgan welcomed their third son James on Sept. 25, 2021.

Henry seems to want to keep the Holt tradition of news reporting going, or at least it looked like that when he visited dad Stefan at work in January 2023.

"Day off from school, he wanted to come to work with his old man," Stefan wrote alongside photos of Henry sitting with him at the news desk and touring the rest of the newsroom.

Lester noticed that Henry had been bit by the reporting bug, too, when Stefan shared photos of his at-home reporting setup during lockdown in 2020.

"It warmed my heart because it immediately made me think of a picture that was taken when I was an anchor in Chicago at the CBS station," Lester said, speaking to Jimmy Fallon on an at-home broadcast of his show in 2020. "One of them, I clearly saw he had the bug for the camera, and of course that's Stefan. It was really heartwarming to think back, I remember when you guys were little and we did pictures like that, and now there's my grandson."

As for what they call their grandma and grandpa, it seems that at least one of the grandparents has an unusual nickname: Grandude!

Lester posted a video on Instagram in February 2021 of Henry spotting him on TV and saying, "That's Grandude!"

"When a so so day becomes the best day ever. My 21 mo old grandson spotting me on TV tonight and finally able to clearly say 'Grandude!' " he captioned the video.

She's always supported Lester's career

Carol has been Lester's biggest supporter since the beginning of his broadcasting days, moving around the world to follow him to his different reporting gigs. But even when all of Lester's reporting was being done from home, Carol showed her support.

Speaking to Jimmy Fallon on his show in 2020, Lester credited Carol for arranging his at-home setup for reporting.

"She came in here, started arranging things — looks great, doesn't it?" Lester said, gesturing to the space around him. And that's not all. She also helped with the important task of keeping their dog Lucy quiet during Lester's news segments.

"My wife, along with being set director, lighting director and technical manager, is also the dog handler," Lester told Fallon.

"Let me tell you, in a few hours when I get ready to do the news, she becomes a hellion in this apartment," he added, holding his dog on his lap.

While Carol admires her husband's career, she says she fell in love with the man, not the TV star.

"I met him when he did radio, [and] I thought that was an interesting job," she told Sactown Magazine.

"The TV job is an interesting job, but at some point you retire, and you're not the TV guy anymore. And I fell in love with the guy who wasn't the TV guy. I fell in love with Lester Holt with the scanner in his car, running around and covering stories. He could stop doing TV right now, and it wouldn't matter to me."

She's a real estate agent

Carol is an accomplished real estate agent who even worked on selling her and Lester's own New York City apartment in August 2017.

The three-bedroom, two-bathroom loft located in Flatiron sold for $6.4 million, listed by Carol and Joann Wasserman of TOWN Residential.

The trendy loft featured an open kitchen with bluestone countertops and a built-in espresso machine, a terrace and an office/media room.

Carol has profiles on the home-selling and renting websites Zillow, StreetEasy and Realtor.com, which emphasize her sharp eye for detail and calming presence with clients.

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Grandparents looking to support their grandchildren’s future education can invest money into a 529 plan. This savings account gives users an easy route to start planning how they will fund their students’ college degrees. Unlike a brokerage account, the money grows tax-free.

Ready to open a 529 account? Here are the advantages that started this academic year. 

In the past, one of the drawbacks was that leftover funds unused by students’ education were at risk of additional tax penalties. This meant using these funds for anything other than education could incur fees. Starting in the 2024-25 school year, grandparents can now move excess funds to a retirement account like a Roth IRA , according to a report from Ameriprise.

Another downside was that 529 contributions and cash gifts from grandparents used to be listed as untaxed income on a student’s Free Application for Student Aid (FAFSA) form. With this factor listed on the application, there was a chance that the potential aid offered could drop.

This year the U.S. Department of Education rolled out a series of changes. In line with the FAFSA Simplification Act, “cash support” and “any money paid on the student’s behalf” are now considered untaxed, as stated in a 2022 update from the Congressional Research Service . For those using the 529 plan, this change is the grandparent loophole.

The NY 529 College Savings Program lists all the benefits grandparents can utilize with this plan as an account owner, like low yearly costs for maintaining an account and no federal tax on gifts under $18,000 per year, on their website . 

For larger families, there is also no limit to how many grandchildren can be supported.

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